Christmas 2011
This time of year should be happy and gay
But for me, it’s just another painful day
You’re not here dear Nicky, how can things be right
I think of you morning,noon and night
Wishing my present this Christmas year
Would be you standing next to me, oh so near
To touch your face, kiss your cheek,and hug you tight
Never, ever, would I let you out of my sight
I must be content with the memories you’ve left in my heart
And dream dreams, where there we are never apart
Missing you more than words could say
Celebrate with Jesus and tell Him I said
"Happy Birthday"
Love Mommy
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
forever missed by your family and friends
Christmas 2009
To my Dearest Nicky
Good morning and Merry Christmas eve my son.I wrote a little poem for you and put it in the review here it is:
"Merry Christmas" my son can you hear me say
"I love and miss you forever and a day"
The holidays seem to come and go
I try to bend with the highs and lows
Your face is before me day and night
Reminding me always you're never really out of sight
Memories are tucked deep within my soul
But my heart is left with this empty hole
My gift to you this Christmas day
Is to follow your example in every way
"Love one another" as Jesus commanded us to
The reward will be great the more that you do.
Love and miss you more each day
Love always MOMMY
This memorial website was created to remember our dearest Nicholas Pisano who was born in Pennsylvania on February 24, 1983 and passed away on March 31, 2008. You will live forever in our memories and hearts
Nicholas Robert Pisano was born in Philadelphia Pa on Febuary 24th 1983 to Barbara and Paul Pisano and passed away on March 31st 2008.He is survived by his parents,3 brothers Paul, his wife Krissy ,Vincent, his fiancee Maria and James and by his sister Rachel.He has 3 neices God daughter Angelyna,Alyssa and Vienna and 1 nephew Vincenzo.He is also survived by his maternal grandparents and many aunts,uncles and cousins.His dog Bella remains with us.We will love Nicky always and miss him forever and a day.
Nicky was brutally shot as he opened his door to two men who were impersonating a pizza delivery but in actuality were there to rob him.He was shot with his Bible in his hand
Nicky's trial starts June 13th 2011 and we pray for justice for Nicky
We want to thank everyone who lights candles and leave graphics for Nicky.We cherish them all as we do you.Love and God Bless
Please add your loved one to either Nicky's friends page or angel friends page.
Thank You Aunt Jo
Dearest Nicky Well 2 years ago today we laid you out for all to come and pay tribute.What a turn out you had,everyone loved you.I miss you more and more each passing day and turn to the Lord for help.I love you so much it hurts.I wrote you a poem to tell you how much I still miss you.
Most people say:"I can't believe 2 years have gone by"
But I'm stuck on March 31 2008 the day that you died
My days last forever,the nights are so long
Someone took you from me and now you are gone
What right did they have to decide your fate
And leave me with these feelings of anger and hate
My life changed forever on that fateful night
No matter what anyone says it never seems right
"I lost my child" I find the words blurt out
When deep down inside,all I want to do is scream and shout.
Mechanically,I tackle my everyday chores
Knowing soon that the Lord will open up new doors
I pray for His guidance,for I know He truly cares
He'll help me climb out from under this avalanche of despair
Please talk to me about my child it's important to me
You may be uncomfortable,but don't you all see
I spoke of him often over the years
His death didn't change that,even though it brings tears
So rest peacefully for now my precious child
Lord willing I'll be joining you in a little while
Love always and forever missed XXXXXXXXXXOOOOOOOO Mommy
Dad’s hurt too
People don't always see the tears a dad cries, his heart is broken too when his child dies.
He tries to hold it together and be strong, even though his world's gone wrong.
He holds his wife as her tears fall, Comforts her through it all,
He goes through his day doing what he's supposed to do,
But a piece of his heart has been ripped away too.
So when he's alone he lets out his pain, and his tears come like falling rain,
His world has crashed in around him, and a world that was once bright has gone dim.
He feels he has to be strong for others but Dads hurt too, not just the Mothers,
He searches for answers but none are to be found, he hides behind a mask when he is feeling down.
He smiles through his tears, he struggles and holds in his fears,
But what you see on the outside is not always real, men don't always show how they really feel.
So I'd like to ask a favor of you, the next time you see a mother hurting
over the loss of her child, please remember... a Dad hurts too.
April 28, 2008
The many faces of Nicky
What can be said about Nicky that those of you who knew and loved him don't already know?
That he was a lover not a fighter
(His words not mine)
He loved his family,his friends,his dog Bella,any kind of animal, rapping, football, an idea, a new discovery, arguing a point, telling a story (he had some whoppers) swimming, the ocean waves, a long walk on the beach, any kind of tea as long as it had tons of sugar in it, creating just the right sandwich calling each new one "The Best", stacked plates full of food to take home from mom's, his salt shaker always displayed on his coffee table like some kind of knic knac, the history and discovery channel, watching a dvd over and over again and trying to talk you into watching it just one more time,dancing (he had a lot of rythmn) impersonations, funny faces,loyalty but most of all " The Bible".
He didn't like fighting and always tried to look at what the other person was going through at the time.He most definitely tried to get you to understand that people are human and mess up,but we should love each other and always forgive because the Lord forgave us.
Nicky always had a love for Jesus,but he was headed in a new direction and he was on fire for the Lord. Once he discovered this new passion, he wanted to spread this good news to all:family,friends and the lost soul on the street. He spent hours reading the Bible and searching to find out what God was trying to teach him. If you ran into him you could be assured that he would open the Bible to show you what he had learned and try to match scripture for scripture with you. This is not a popular subject for many his age but he wasn't ashamed or shy to share this with you. Little by little friends and family would pick up a Bible just so they could read together and many say through Nicky they now read daily.
Many parents can boast about their children's accomplishments and the lists are long I'm sure. With the exception of the love and memories he has left behind to us all, Nicky didn't accomplish great things from a worldly point of view,however spiritually he has ran the race and won and I believe the world was a much better place for having him stop by for a while. I surely know it is a much dimmer place without him here.So as Nicky would say I leave you with this "Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus" you will never be disappointed!
Big Bro You Know Nick lit a candle on 12/31/2008: "thinkin about u on this new years eve, thinkin of u all the time, GOD blessed me to have u as a brother. U were my" |
Big Bro Nick We Know That. lit a candle on 12/31/2008: "other half, and you were a better person than me. And taught me how to act the way GOD wants me to be.luv u!!!" |
This is a poem Nicky's Aunt Marge wrote for him
April 06, 2008
This is a poem Nicky's cousin Tia wrote for him
August 23, 2008
Here is another poem written by Nicky's cousin Tia on his 2 yr angelversary date
Two years have gone by
In the blink of an eye
Yet somehow so slow
It seems so long ago
Still you are missed
Our eyes forever mist
How could we know
That you had to go
We long for the day
When we hear the Lord say
"All is now better,
For we are all together"
Nicky and Lisa friends for life everlasting
SOUL COMPLETE
Nicholas's prayer to God His Father I, Nicholas Pisano, pray to my God, the only God, the Creator of heaven and earth,whose seed was in itself the Son of the most High that not unwillingly but for our sake through mercy and love,faced the wrath of the Father.
He sent His own Son,who was crushed for our sake,that we might be saved through His grace. What am I without my Lord? For I am nothing without the Lord,though I am alive,now I'm dead.But with Him,even in death is life and through Him,the Lamb without blemish,the only name under heaven through mercy and His love, not our love but His love, His generosity which give life freely.And blessed am I ,that He even allowed me to hear His Word and deserves all glory.For glory is He and His glory will not be given to another nor should be.He, the Creator of wisdom, He created love.He created life, He created all.His word accomplished whatever God set it to.He spoke me into existence.I pray to the Most High and the Son,who are one.The Son has always been.I hear your voice through your word and follow for You are my Shepherd, my Father, my Creator, the King of Kings, my Saviour.I beg for mercy because without Your mercy not one can stand before the face of the true God, who sits on the throne. Our life is but a vapor which vanishes, but His life is an everlasting kingdom.Forgive me for I know not what I do.The only place my soul is safe is with You.Who can stop the hand of the Lord or who can stop His will.No other name under the heaven can deliver me. My God's hand can not be held back, nor His will.His word will not tarry. This prayer that Nicholas wrote to the Lord was found in his apartment after he died |
Thank you Vicki
My Child
I loved you for so many months
Before you were even born,
I talked and sang and read to you
And kept you safe and warm.
And when you opened first your eyes
And looked deeply into my soul,
My heart grew full, and with great relief,
I saw that you were whole.
Your tiny little bitsy fist,
Wrapped tight around my thumb,
The trust you placed upon me,
Struck me completely dumb.
How awesome was your little smile
That spoke of your dreams to me,
So trusting as you slowly nursed,
So dependant, relaxed and free.
Committed I myself to you,
As protector, friend and guide,
And watched you grow, a tender shoot,
Close ever by my side.
How shocked was I when the death angel came
And bore you to heaven’s home,
To fill a spot in God’s own heart,
And with Jesus talk and roam.
Please know, my child, how my heart breaks
That you have gone away;
Yet the love you opened up to me
Will last through judgment day.
Amid my grief my life goes on;
I learned so much from you:
How to trust my Heavenly Father
In everything I do.
Some great day when my life is done,
According to God’s plan;
I’ll bring my broken heart to you
And it will be whole again.
I thank my Lord for lending you,
In the way He did, to me.
For He used you as a building block
To my own eternity.
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